Free Training with Elise Carr, Integrative Therapist and
Conscious Relationship Specialist
You still love him. You
just don't love this Anymore.
Watch: the one thing that explains the distance and how to finally close it.
$497USD or 2 monthly payments of $297USD
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everything You Just Experienced ...
... the UPD, the Connection Blueprint, the reason nothing has worked until now, that is Week 1 of the full course.
Week 1 alone has shifted couples who've been together for 28 years.
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28 Day Deeper Intimacy & Conscious Love
Six modules. Your own pace. Lifetime access.
THIS IS FOR YOU…
if you’re ready for more than
“we’re fine".
Inside the course
Module #1:
PSYCHOLOGICAL: The Connection Blueprint
This is where everything begins. You and your partner each complete your UPD assessment — your Unique Psychological Disposition. Which reveals how you each actually experience the world, why you fight the way you do, what you need to feel loved and safe, and why the same arguments keep happening. Most couples have never had this conversation before. Elise has watched this single module dissolve years of unnecessary hurt in relationships that tried everything else. The reset happens here.
- The UPD Assessment: You and your partner each complete your Unique Psychological Disposition profile. What comes out of this single exercise has dissolved decades of misunderstanding for couples who tried everything else first.
- Fierce Presence: Learn to be genuinely, fully with each other. The psychological approach to vulnerability and communication that most couples never find.
- Ending the Argument Loop: Understand what's actually driving the fights, not just the surface trigger. Once you see it, the same argument stops happening.
- From Conflict to Conscious Communication: A guided process that takes you from heated and reactive to genuinely heard and resolved.
Module #2:
EMOTIONAL: Dissolving the Walls
Once you understand each other's UPD, you use that understanding to melt the emotional walls that have quietly built between you. This module moves you from the reactive cycle: the flare-ups, the withdrawals, the going to bed still feeling alone, into calm, connected closeness. You'll learn how to bridge vulnerability, how to communicate in the language the other person can actually hear, and how to resolve conflict in a way that brings you closer rather than further apart.
- Working with Anger and Anxiety: Learn to move through the fiery moments without them derailing everything. Personal growth that creates real inner calm, so you can be safely vulnerable with each other.
- Shifting Your Emotional State: Practical tools to move from reactive and overwhelmed to present, settled and genuinely happy together.
- Eastern Wisdom Practices: Ancient techniques that recalibrate your body and mind quickly. Couples describe feeling lighter and calmer in ways they didn't expect.
- The Heart-Mind Toolkit: Navigate the moments when you're flooded, worried or disconnected. A set of practices that bring you back to each other.
- Releasing What You've Been Carrying: The most powerful process in the course for many couples. Drop the emotional weight you've accumulated, and stop adding more.
Module #3:
Conscious Communication: The Beautiful Connection Creator
Real intimacy starts in how you talk to each other. This module teaches the art of conscious communication, not the surface-level tips you've already tried, but the deeper approach that creates the kind of conversations that fill you both up. Passionate, loving, intimate connection in the bedroom begins here.
- The Art of Conscious Communication: Move from conversations that hurt or go nowhere to exchanges where you both feel genuinely heard, seen and understood.
- The Beautiful Connection Creator: The combination of conscious communication, real vulnerability and intimacy practice that rebuilds trust and closeness from the inside out.
- Intimacy from the Ground Up: Emotional connection comes first. This is where body, heart and mind intimacy begins, and where the bedroom naturally follows.
- The Harmony Sweet Spot: Finding the rhythm between the busyness of life and the slow, present, tender moments that keep a couple actually connected.
Module #4:
Intimacy: Lacklustre to Loving Sex
This is the module most couples secretly most want and are most afraid to admit it. Elise covers what actually drives physical connection, why it fades and how to genuinely reignite it. You'll learn to touch, feel and explore in ways that move you from unsatisfied to the point of overflowing. Tender, passionate, deeply connected sex. Not as a fantasy, but as a practice.
- Touch, Feel, Explore: A guided approach to physical intimacy that moves you toward full body presence and connection.
- Knowing Each Other: Learn what actually lights your partner up, and let them learn the same about you. From unsatisfied to genuinely overflowing.
- The Keys to Pleasure: How to bring real intention and awareness to sex so it becomes something that deepens rather than disappoints.
- Creating Your Sacred Sanctuary: How you design your bedroom and your rituals together matters. Co-create an environment for genuine passion, play and love.
Module #5:
DEEPER LOVE: Sacred Intimacy
For those ready to go where most couples never go. This module introduces the ancient art of sacred sexuality: blending your bodies, hearts, minds and spirits into something that transcends what most people even know is possible. Clients describe it as opening their eyes to something greater. This is for couples who want to go all the way into what love can really be.
- Qigong as Medicine: Experience an ancient healing practice that prepares the body and opens the heart before anything else begins.
- A New Kind of Foreplay: Move from habitual and rushed to genuinely golden. The three-part warm-up that changes what comes next.
- Lovemaking as Merging: Body, heart, mind and spirit. This is what clients mean when they say it opened their eyes to something greater.
- Sacred Guidance for Deeper Pleasure: Where you both arrive at a new level, together. Not performance. Presence.
- Moving Sexual Energy: The art of Qigong applied to intimacy. Ancient knowledge that most couples in the West have never encountered.
- Advanced Sexual Qigong: For those who want to go further into this practice. The depth here is real and it compounds over time.
Module #6:
HIGHER WISDOM: The Transcendent Relationship
The final module is about longevity. How do you keep growing together at 60, 70, beyond? This is relationship as spiritual practice — the Eastern wisdom that ensures love doesn't plateau into the beige cardigan of "we're fine" but deepens, evolves, and becomes more alive over time. From connected to cosmic.
- Relationship as Spiritual Practice: The shift from simply being together to actively creating something that grows, deepens and sustains. From connected to cosmic.
- The Forever Flame: The missing link that most long-term couples never find. What keeps love alive not just in the early years but across a lifetime.
- The Three Aspects of Being: A perspective shift that changes how you see yourself, your partner and everything between you.
- The Relationship Change Catalyst: The internal move that takes you from where you are to where you actually want to be, together.
- Communication as Communion: When every real conversation becomes a flow state. This is what conscious communication grows into at its deepest.
- Creating Loving Presence: The practice that underpins relationship longevity at every age and stage. This is the long game, and it's the most beautiful one.
Bonuses!
Join Now and You Can Gain Access To
Loving Reconnection
Guided Practice
Be guided through a transcendent practice to see, sense and feel loving reconnection. This is a practice that many couples love to go back to time and time again.
10
VEILS
The self-paced book and accompanying journal for your personal inner journey to awaken sacred union. The exercises in this are utterly invaluable and have helped individuals around the world transform within themselves to then better transform their most intimate relationship.
Morning Alignment
Meditation
Meditation is backed by modern science and created by ancient wisdom. Start your day right; feeling calm, connected and harmonised with this simple, short and soulful guided meditation audio as it effortlessly leads you through a complete mind, body, heart, soul alignment.
Members Only Access:
Online Group
Access to private members only online group support – Invitation and membership to join other couples just like you in a safe space where you can share and learn from others’ relationship journeys too.
Lifetime Access
(take your time)
Lifetime access to the 28 Day Deeper Intimacy & Conscious Love Guidance Course for couples. For as long as this is online and running - and I intend on that being a loooooong time - this course in its entirety is for you to take your time with, come back to, revisit and truly sit with and dive deep into.
you can also get...
One-on-One Session
This is a personal Session with me, Elise Carr upon course completion. Scheduled from 4 weeks after you receive & complete the course. Be met exactly where you are (for you both together or, just one partner 1:1).
*Dependent on availability*
30-DAY
MONEY BACK GUARANTEE
Try Week 1. If you don't feel something shift in how you see yourself, your partner, your relationship, email us within 30 days and you'll get a full refund.
Week 1 alone has dissolved 28 years of unnecessary hurt for couples who found this course. That's the level of confidence behind this offer.
ARE YOU READY FOR THE RELATIONSHIP YOU LONG FOR?
ARE YOU READY FOR THE RELATIONSHIP YOU LONG FOR?
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2 monthly payments of
$297
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Real results...
Does it work?
“EXCEPTIONAL! GROWN OUR SPARK BACK!!”
Geoff - “With two young kids the spark can be pushed aside but … we’ve been able to reconnect and grow our spark back! Reflect on how I am as a father and with that as a lover to my wife who’s the mother of my children. Thank you Elise, it’s been very fulfilling, helpful and definitely given us tools and grown our spark back which has been lovely. If you’re looking for help to get that ignition and open a path for communication, of deeper love, definitely give this a go!”
Bec - “This definitely is a course that gives you strategies, ideas, scenarios to have a lot of deeper conversations - conversations we haven’t had before, even having been together a long time! Thank you for this course!”
Bec & Geoff
INCREDIBLE LEADERSHIP THROUGH RELATIONSHIPS – SHE’S THE WOMAN
“I want to recommend Elise Carr and her incredible leadership through relationships. I’ve known Elise for 10 years. She has been a huge part of my journey in becoming the woman that I am today, to speak up openly, communicate with my boyfriend-now-husband. She really put us on the trajectory of working on our relationship, having deep, honest, open conversation and communication. I highly recommend - if you are looking for someone to support you through your own journey with your own self, relationship or with your partner, she’s the woman.”
Heidi Anderson - PR Coach & Publicist
“WE DIDN’T REALISE HOW MUCH DEEPER WE COULD GO”
“I completed Elise’s “Deeper Intimacy & Conscious Love” program and I can’t recommend this enough. We communicate really well and are very loving to each other BUT we didn’t realise how much deeper we could go with the right questions and tools Elise teaches us in the program. We indeed had some issues that we had to talk about and become clearer on what we needed and wanted for ourselves individually and as a couple. I am so grateful we did this program together.
Yoko ~ Raw Chef, Business Owner & Author
“TRULY ONE OF A KIND…AMAZING…WE COULDN’T ASK FOR A BETTER COURSE!”
“It's been amazing for us - sparking a lot of conversation and intimacy. It was so educational, uplifting and illuminating! Scheduling intimacy was one big thing for us. Making it sacred…that's something we’ve incorporated and we look forward to continuing because it does make a big impact and we know it's that time for us as - this beautiful practice of putting time aside for you as the union, is incredible.
She did a fantastic job of structuring the course where you start out with the psychological, move on to emotions, intimacy and then love and wisdom. You're really working to understand yourself so that you can show up for your partner but also yourself. It felt like an excellent progression. I couldn't ask for a better course. Opening with that personality test especially - seeing the measurable portion and then knowing where we need to focus our attention for that other person and to be there to support that other person. Thank you so much Elise for being able to support so many people and have couples that can really love and elevate together. We loved it so much.”
Diana & Jordan
Meet your Therapist
Hi, I'm Elise!
Hi, I'm Elise. I went from hurtful, unfulfilling, lacklustre relationships to a partnership of heart and soul in life and in love - even within the chaos of the outside world.
Many years ago I was told it’s enough to have passion and happiness at the start that only dwindles or even crumbles. To have a relationship that is safe and familiar but doesn’t make me feel loved, valued or seen for who I truly am. That consistently coming third after my partner’s career, other people in their life and priorities is still pretty good. I too laid awake with my heart aching and hurt, worried to the pit of my stomach. I was desperately wanting better guidance for myself at these times.
Like most people I didn’t have any wise, compassionate counsel from anyone who'd created their own successful long term relationship. I didn’t know how to express and communicate how I was feeling unloved, not a priority, not part of a team. And even worse! I didn’t know it was also up to me to share what I wanted FAR beyond the surface level every day. I longed for and I yearned to be held in a tender embrace, seen to my depths, heard for all I had to share and prioritised. Inside was like an emotional rollercoaster that I was riding, pained and alone.
Then I realised something vital was missing and that no podcast, book, online quick fix, same ol’ sex techniques, or biased ill-equipped therapy would cut it and this shaped my entire integrative therapy practice and approach…
It wasn’t until I learnt how to create romantic connections on the psychological, physical/intimate, emotional, mental and spiritual levels through the blend of Modern Western Psychological Sciences & The Ancient Eastern Teachings…that my current long-term relationship became more conscious, loving and intimate and has transcended all the other relationships I had previously.
Meet Your Therapist...
Hi, I'm Elise. I went from hurtful, unfulfilling, lacklustre relationships to a partnership of heart and soul in life and in love - even within the chaos of the outside world.
Many years ago I was told it’s enough to have passion and happiness at the start that only dwindles or even crumbles. To have a relationship that is safe and familiar but doesn’t make me feel loved, valued or seen for who I truly am. That consistently coming third after my partner’s career, other people in their life and priorities is still pretty good. I too laid awake with my heart aching and hurt, worried to the pit of my stomach. I was desperately wanting better guidance for myself at these times.
Like most people I didn’t have any wise, compassionate counsel from anyone who'd created their own successful long term relationship. I didn’t know how to express and communicate how I was feeling unloved, not a priority, not part of a team. And even worse! I didn’t know it was also up to me to share what I wanted FAR beyond the surface level every day. I longed for and I yearned to be held in a tender embrace, seen to my depths, heard for all I had to share and prioritised. Inside was like an emotional rollercoaster that I was riding, pained and alone.
Then I realised something vital was missing and that no podcast, book, online quick fix, same ol’ sex techniques, or biased ill-equipped therapy would cut it and this shaped my entire integrative therapy practice and approach…
It wasn’t until I learnt how to create romantic connections on the psychological, physical/intimate, emotional, mental and spiritual levels through the blend of Modern Western Psychological Sciences & The Ancient Eastern Teachings…that my current long-term relationship became more conscious, loving and intimate and has transcended all the other relationships I had previously.
“Disconnection in relationship happens because many of us don’t know that the right blend of consciousness and method, of love and effort, of both The Ancient Eastern Wisdom Teachings & practices with scientifically proven Western psychological methods is the answer. It's hard to solve relationship & life challenges, changes, crisis’ and beyond with only one of these.”
Like me, Couples around the World said goodbye to lacklustre relationships … We Are proof your relationship can:
- Feel deeply connected body, heart, mind & beyond
- Be passionate and exciting
- Be intimate and playful
- Feel warm, supportive and loving
- Grow, evolve and flourish
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When you finish this course you will…
- Have learnt both a heart and mind approach to create lasting change and the depth and intimacy you long for…
- Finally understand the unspoken dynamics shaping your relationship & truly know and understand yourselves and each other in ways you have never before…
- Not only have an intimacy breakthrough shifting from a lacklustre love-life to tender, passionate love, but you will know how to ignite the deepest emotional connection possible…
- Experience the Ancient Eastern Wisdom Teaching: including sacred sexual practices. Hello Cosmic Love!
After only 4 weeks,
YOU COULD FEEL LIKE DAISY:
"MAJOR BREAKTHROUGH WITH MY BELOVED"
“Following Elise’s advice, I had a major breakthrough with my beloved that has resulted in both of us feeling heard, seen, loved, and actively committed to taking the steps we need to keep moving forward in greater harmony. I can literally feel the vitality and joy returning to my body, heart, and mind.”
Daisy ~ PhD, Counsellor, Yoga & Meditation teacher
You might have questions.
We’ve got answers.
What if my partner isn't as excited as I am about this?
You can lead the way. By starting the course, you're not only deepening your self-awareness, you're taking a powerful, loving step toward your relationship’s growth. Which you know is needed and deeply wanted right now
As you share the insights you're gaining, how it’s shifting your perspective or the ways you're applying the wisdom, skills and tools, your beloved may naturally become curious. Your commitment to growth can be the catalyst for transforming your partnership.
The course is self-paced, so you can move through it solo now, and invite your partner to join you later—or revisit it together when the time feels right.
Real change starts with one open heart. Let it be yours.
Is this possible in 28 days?
You might be thinking, “You can’t fix a relationship in 28 days.” And you’re right—you may not PERFECT it in that time.
BUT from Week 1 alone, with the psychological module and your UPD assessment, couples experience powerful shifts in how they understand and relate to each other.
You’ll then build on that with three more foundational modules and a fifth for deeper, conscious love and beyond with the wisdom module. Many couples are surprised by what’s possible in 28 days—and since the course is self-paced, you can take the time you need.
What makes this course different?
Blending BOTH proven psychological methods with ageless eastern wisdom, versus courses which only focus on clinical routine relationship basics with no heart and emotional support OR pseudo-spiritual courses that have you sitting in eye gazing, ‘balancing’ your energies but never solving the root problems.
You need both a mind and heart approach in order to create lasting change and bring about the depth and intimacy you long for, and this course does just that.
Can we afford this?
If you’re feeling disconnected, alone, or resentful—toward your partner or even yourself—you’re not alone. But staying stuck comes at a high cost.
Leaving a relationship can cost thousands financially—not to mention the emotional toll, especially with children or shared assets. But staying as is can cost even more: your growth, your joy, your dreams for love, family, purpose.
This isn’t just about saving a relationship—it’s about choosing growth, healing, and possibility for both of you.
You can see this as investing, in not only your relationship and gaining the true connection you long for, but both growing individually and as a couple.
An investment now can transform everything.
What if one of us works away or does shift work? Can we go at our own pace?
Absolutely you can go at your own pace! Whether you work shift work, you or your partner travels, or life is simply full—this course is here to meet you both where you are.
While I recommend a 28-day flow to spark momentum to get the results you are longing for sooner, you can take 6 weeks, 6 months, or move through it in your own rhythm. Even if one of you moves ahead at times, that’s okay too.
There’s no expiry. No lockout. You’ll have lifetime access (as long as it’s online), and the practices are designed to fit into real life—without needing hours you don’t have.
The techniques within the course don't require a lot of time. You just need the right guidance. Which you’ll receive here.
Do we need to know how to meditate? And have a psych degree?
Definitely not. The eastern wisdom and spiritual practices are simplified, so no meditation experience needed.
And with the UPD and other tools, you won’t need a background in psychology either. It’s all designed to be easy, practical—and even enjoyable.
Like couples have said, they even had a few laughs along the way. You don’t have to take it all too seriously to get real results.
We’re already seeing a counsellor / therapist should we add this too?
It is very rare to find a professional who is trained in both western psychological sciences and eastern wisdom, who can ALSO cover everything that you will in the Course.
A couple said to me “There is no therapist like Elise who integrates and bridges the Western Psychological Sciences AND Eastern Wisdom Practices & combines that for you in the 5+ key areas” of:
- 💭 Psychological,
- ☺ Conscious Communication,
- 😘 Emotions,
- 😍 Intimacy (including sex),
- 🥰 Love,
PLUS
- 💕 Deeper Love
- 🌷Higher Wisdom of relationship as spiritual practice.
So, 28 Days to Deeper Intimacy & Conscious Love goes far beyond conventional therapy—combining decades of personal and professional experience with powerful, practical tools and wisdom in one transformative course.
You’ll gain access to a unique, wise, heart-led approach to the relationship you truly desire
You can absolutely continue seeing your therapist if that’s working for you—some couples do this alongside the course, while others shift direction once they begin. You’ll know what’s right for you once you start.
How much time do we need each week?
A little time consistently = a big shift in your relationship.
Every couple is different, so how you move through it will be unique to you. What matters most is prioritising even the small windows. Because not making time now will cost more—emotionally, mentally, and even financially—later.
Whether it’s 10 minutes in the evenings or a couple of hours on the weekend, the course is completely self-paced to fit your lifestyle. You don’t need hours every day—just consistent small windows of time.
Do we have to start now? What i'f we're going away?
I’m not sure we’re ready for this!
The choice is yours. Start today, or stay where you are.
You deserve more than “we’re fine.” You deserve closeness, tenderness, joy, intimacy—and the know-how to keep growing together.
But if you sign up today, you can ALSO receive:
✔ All bonus content
✔ Lifetime access
✔ 50% off full payment
✔ And a fast-action 1:1 session with me
This course is the roadmap to deeper intimacy and conscious love. It gives you the tools, love-wisdom, and support to turn things around—starting now with the self-paced design to work around your life.
Keep hoping things will change on their own, or take the first step today toward real transformation you are longing for.
If you're feeling disconnected, stuck in cycles of arguing, lacking intimacy, or wondering if your relationship will make it… the time to act is now. You can either:
Don’t wait—because waiting feeds fear. The “right time” rarely comes. And the longer you delay, the louder fear, resistance, and excuses get—talking you out of what your heart truly wants.
What will it cost if we don’t take action now?
Most of us spend without thinking—on dinners, events, weekends away. And while those can be wonderful, if you're doing them to escape the discomfort of your relationship, they can become bandaids… or worse, painful memories when the night ends in disconnection or arguments.
You don’t get another chance at this anniversary.
You don’t get back that weekend spent hurt or distant.
Time doesn’t replenish. When it’s gone, it’s gone.
So ask yourself what is it truly costing you to stay where you are?
Not just financially… but emotionally, mentally, spiritually?
When your relationship is strained, it impacts everything—your self-esteem, home life, work, even your health. Investing in this course isn’t about money—it’s about what that money gives you back: clarity, intimacy, joy, and time well spent.
Love. Connection. A future that feels safe and rich in intimacy.
That’s a return you can’t put a price on.
The real question is “What will it cost us if we don’t take action now?”
Is 28 Day Deeper Intimacy & Conscious Love for us?
If your heart aches for more: connection, understanding, love—this is for you.
You’re tired of hurtful toxic arguments and feeling misunderstood.
You want to break the cycle of pain, tears, anger, and finally feel seen, heard, and held.
Your relationship feels shallow or distant.
You crave real intimacy—a loving glance, a gentle touch, a spark that reignites your passion. You want conversations that awaken your mind and heart, not just surface level chat or arguments about chores.
You feel unappreciated, unsupported, or unloved.
If you’re carrying the weight of making things work and still feel empty or alone, you deserve more.
You long for physical, emotional, soulful closeness.
Whether you miss tender touches, passionate sex, or simply want to feel desired again, this is for you. If you lie next to your partner feeling invisible or emotionally starving, you’re not alone—and you don’t have to stay stuck.
If you’re ready for deeper love, real intimacy, and a relationship that truly nourishes you, this is your invitation.
What is the impact on your life & the real cost to stay as you are now?
Even if things seem okay and you’re both comfortable, do you crave that lost spark or a deeper, lasting connection? Do you want to experience new levels of intimacy and keep that passion alive for life?
Ask yourself:
What’s the true impact of staying where you are? What’s the real cost of settling for “fine” when you could have flourishing?
Only you know what this is truly worth to you and your relationship.
If you’re ready to take action, the 28 Day Deeper Intimacy & Conscious Love Couples Course is for you. You’ll be challenged, inspired, and supported every step of the way.
Don’t wait—your chance to transform your relationship is here, but it won’t last, so join us today to create the connection you long for and deserve.
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